Prayer

What God Expects in Prayer: A Biblical Perspective

Prayer is a central part of the Christian life and a way to communicate with God. It is both a privilege and an act of obedience. The Bible provides clear guidance on what God expects in prayer, emphasizing sincerity, faith, humility, and alignment with His will.


1. Sincerity in Prayer

  • God expects prayer to be genuine, heartfelt, and free from pretense.
    • Matthew 6:5-6: “When you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward. But when you pray, go into your room, close the door, and pray to your Father, who is unseen.”

What it means:

  • Prayer should not be a performance to impress others but a sincere conversation with God.
  • God values the authenticity of your heart over eloquent words.

2. Faith in Prayer

  • God expects us to pray with faith, trusting in His ability and willingness to answer.
    • Hebrews 11:6: “And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.”
    • Mark 11:24: “Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.”

What it means:

  • Prayer requires confidence in God’s power and His promises.
  • Even when answers are delayed or different from our expectations, faith keeps us trusting in His plan.

3. Humility in Prayer

  • God expects prayer to come from a humble heart that recognizes its dependence on Him.
    • 2 Chronicles 7:14: “If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land.”
    • Luke 18:13: “But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’”

What it means:

  • Acknowledging our need for God, repentance, and seeking His mercy is vital.
  • God resists pride but listens to the humble in spirit.

4. Alignment with God’s Will

  • God expects our prayers to align with His will and purpose.
    • 1 John 5:14-15: “This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him.”
    • Matthew 6:10: “Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.”

What it means:

  • Prayers should reflect God’s priorities, such as justice, mercy, love, and His kingdom.
  • Aligning with God’s will doesn’t mean abandoning our desires but trusting Him to answer in ways that are best.

5. Persistence in Prayer

  • God expects persistence in prayer, showing dedication and trust in His timing.
    • Luke 18:1: “Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up.”
    • 1 Thessalonians 5:17: “Pray without ceasing.”

What it means:

  • Persistent prayer demonstrates faith and reliance on God, even in the face of challenges.
  • It’s not about wearing God down but about drawing closer to Him and showing commitment.

6. Gratitude in Prayer

  • God expects prayer to include thanksgiving, acknowledging His goodness.
    • Philippians 4:6: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”
    • 1 Thessalonians 5:18: “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”

What it means:

  • Thank God not only for answered prayers but also for His presence, faithfulness, and grace.
  • Gratitude shifts the focus from our problems to God’s provision.

7. Forgiveness in Prayer

  • God expects us to forgive others when we pray, as unforgiveness hinders our prayers.
    • Mark 11:25: “And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”
    • Matthew 6:14-15: “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.”

What it means:

  • Unforgiveness creates a barrier in our relationship with God.
  • Forgiving others reflects God’s grace and allows our prayers to flow unhindered.

8. Simplicity in Prayer

  • God expects prayer to be simple and heartfelt, not overly elaborate or repetitive.
    • Matthew 6:7-8: “And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.”

What it means:

  • Prayer doesn’t need to be long or complicated; God values sincerity over wordiness.
  • He already knows our needs, so prayer is about relationship, not information.

Practical Tips for Effective Prayer

  1. Start with Praise: Acknowledge God’s greatness and holiness.
  2. Confess Sins: Humbly repent and seek forgiveness.
  3. Align with His Will: Ask for guidance to pray according to His purpose.
  4. Be Specific: Clearly present your needs and desires.
  5. Express Gratitude: Thank God for blessings, past and present.
  6. Be Persistent: Continue praying even when answers take time.
  7. Listen: Take time in prayer to hear God’s voice through His Word and Spirit.

Reflection Questions

  1. Do I approach prayer with sincerity and humility?
  2. How can I align my prayers more closely with God’s will?
  3. Am I persistent and patient in prayer, trusting in God’s timing?
  4. Is there anyone I need to forgive to ensure my prayers are not hindered?
  5. Do I include gratitude in my prayers, even during difficult times?

Conclusion

God expects prayer to be a heartfelt expression of faith, humility, and trust in Him. It’s not about perfect words or formulas but about a genuine relationship. When we pray sincerely, persistently, and with gratitude, aligning our hearts with His will, we fulfill His expectations and grow closer to Him. Through prayer, God not only meets our needs but transforms us to reflect His character.